This summer of 2025, we are allowing ourselves to be inspired by a short poem by Loryn Brantz:

In a time of hate, love is an act of resistance
In a time of fear, faith is an act of resistance
In a time of misinformation, education is an act of resistance
In a time of poor leadership, community is an act of resistance
In a time like this, joy is an act of resistance.

I think I first experienced community at school.

In the bilingual school I attended through third grade, I knew I belonged with other children who also had a parent who spoke with an accent because English wasn’t their first language.

And it was on the first day of public school in 4th grade, when I didn’t know the pledge of allegiance, that I discovered I would have to work at belonging in this new context and culture. It was only decades later – after I had already become a mother, a midwife and a minister – when I realized that church was also about community and belonging. 

Reflecting now, I actually think our fellowship is a lot like school for grownups.  What do I mean? 

I think of our fellowship as a place adults can continue learning in groups and growing as individuals. Our fellowship is a place where grownups are challenged to learn new things about themselves and the world. Our fellowship is a place adults can experiment with new skills, try on uncomfortable leadership roles, and share their care beyond the comfort and/or dysfunction of their families. 

Becoming a minister was the last thing on earth anyone in my family expected me to do or be, but instead of staying in school forever, I’m so glad I found a community where I could explore all my identities and still experience a deep sense of belonging. 

Once we realize why we gather together – because forming strong communities when the world is tearing us apart – is an act of resilience and resistance – choosing church makes more and more sense.

When we come together as a congregation or a spiritual community, we are acknowledging, accepting and admitting we need each other to survive and thrive. When we gather, we are practicing the skills it requires to make collaborative co-existence – or community – possible.   

This July, I hope to hear your stories of belonging, and not belonging, in community. Sharing these stories will shape our exploration of ways we can make our own fellowship community more welcoming to more people!   

With love beyond belief,